Jan

Did I mention that Jan helped us out this spring? Once again, a non-family "family" member stepped up to the plate, and so we have another reprieve from financial collapse, another chance to outlast the selling of our house, the move to Rhode Island, the new job. I have a good feeling, but it is based upon the fact that it is spring. House sales happen now and there has been more interest. Also, there are more job openings, though I am not getting in the door to speak with anyone. Jan has helped her old friend Sally, and by extension, me while Clay has now helped his old friend Charlie, and by extension, Sally. I don't want to go any further into debt with friends; I don't know how much further we can go anyway, or how many others there are to help. Jan has done so very well in California with her jewelry business: who'd have guessed? Certainly not her former husband, the advertising creative type who loaned her a couple of thousand to cover start up costs many years ago, and off she went, never looking back.

So we are mired here and in South Salem. I have allowed this Time for Change to stall our progress, the house, the job, the family. How can I circumvent these clogs, if not clear them, and regain control, to move in a positive direction?